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	<title>Comments on: Denial Ain&#8217;t Working No More</title>
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		<title>By: teendoc</title>
		<link>http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/2008/07/11/denial-aint-working-no-more/comment-page-1/#comment-2718</link>
		<dc:creator>teendoc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:43:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah #1 Dinosaur, you get what&#039;s been bugging me all along. This vague, mobile (on ultrasound) nonspecific *thingy* (don&#039;t you love my medical terminology) just really seems too vague to truly be anything bad. No one but the man behind the curtain (the radiologist) really seems to be concerned. The one good thing is that he isn&#039;t lining his pockets since the procedure is being done downtown by another doc in MRI. (And I&#039;m still trying to figure out how one does a biopsy in an MRI machine.)

And you raised the exact question I had for Dr. Dahlia. How negative will be negative enough? The answer I received didn&#039;t actually answer the question sufficiently. The three scenarios were:

a) normal biopsy-repeat mammogram and ultrasound in 6 months
b) suspicious biopsy with atypia or other weird finding-open biopsy
c) bad biopsy-surgery

Note that nondiagnostic or inadequate sample are not options listed there. Ah well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah #1 Dinosaur, you get what&#8217;s been bugging me all along. This vague, mobile (on ultrasound) nonspecific *thingy* (don&#8217;t you love my medical terminology) just really seems too vague to truly be anything bad. No one but the man behind the curtain (the radiologist) really seems to be concerned. The one good thing is that he isn&#8217;t lining his pockets since the procedure is being done downtown by another doc in MRI. (And I&#8217;m still trying to figure out how one does a biopsy in an MRI machine.)</p>
<p>And you raised the exact question I had for Dr. Dahlia. How negative will be negative enough? The answer I received didn&#8217;t actually answer the question sufficiently. The three scenarios were:</p>
<p>a) normal biopsy-repeat mammogram and ultrasound in 6 months<br />
b) suspicious biopsy with atypia or other weird finding-open biopsy<br />
c) bad biopsy-surgery</p>
<p>Note that nondiagnostic or inadequate sample are not options listed there. Ah well.</p>
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		<title>By: #1 Dinosaur</title>
		<link>http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/2008/07/11/denial-aint-working-no-more/comment-page-1/#comment-2717</link>
		<dc:creator>#1 Dinosaur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All I can say is, &quot;Oy!&quot;

I&#039;ll be the voice of dissent and say that CYA medicine sucks. This lesion is just too vague to be seriously worrisome. You also didn&#039;t mention whether or not it was seen on ultrasound. If not, how the hell are they going to manage a core biopsy of it? You said it&#039;s right up against the chest wall behind the breast; tough area to get to. Also, did you ask Dr. Dahlia what she plans to do if the biopsy comes back &quot;nondiagnostic&quot; (and/or if they don&#039;t a good sampling of the lesion)? ie, How &quot;negative&quot; will be &quot;negative enough&quot;?

I&#039;m with you that you&#039;re stuck on a rollercoaster. And with all due respect to your aunt, gynecologists are among the most paranoid CYA artists of all, second only to radiologists. By the way, notice that the radiologist recommended a procedure that *he* would perform (cough*and get paid for!*cough)

Tough spot to be in, however you cut it. I don&#039;t envy you, but I am pulling for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All I can say is, &#8220;Oy!&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be the voice of dissent and say that CYA medicine sucks. This lesion is just too vague to be seriously worrisome. You also didn&#8217;t mention whether or not it was seen on ultrasound. If not, how the hell are they going to manage a core biopsy of it? You said it&#8217;s right up against the chest wall behind the breast; tough area to get to. Also, did you ask Dr. Dahlia what she plans to do if the biopsy comes back &#8220;nondiagnostic&#8221; (and/or if they don&#8217;t a good sampling of the lesion)? ie, How &#8220;negative&#8221; will be &#8220;negative enough&#8221;?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m with you that you&#8217;re stuck on a rollercoaster. And with all due respect to your aunt, gynecologists are among the most paranoid CYA artists of all, second only to radiologists. By the way, notice that the radiologist recommended a procedure that *he* would perform (cough*and get paid for!*cough)</p>
<p>Tough spot to be in, however you cut it. I don&#8217;t envy you, but I am pulling for you.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/2008/07/11/denial-aint-working-no-more/comment-page-1/#comment-2716</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 15:31:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have tried to post this 3x already - last try and then I&#039;m emailing :)  

I love your aunt.  It&#039;s a good thing she talked some sense into you - it&#039;s saving me a trip across the bridge to kick your tush into gear!

I&#039;m sure it&#039;s nothing and when your doctor confirms same, we can celebrate with some of that green wine you were talking about :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have tried to post this 3x already &#8211; last try and then I&#8217;m emailing <img src='http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   </p>
<p>I love your aunt.  It&#8217;s a good thing she talked some sense into you &#8211; it&#8217;s saving me a trip across the bridge to kick your tush into gear!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s nothing and when your doctor confirms same, we can celebrate with some of that green wine you were talking about <img src='http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Deathstar</title>
		<link>http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/2008/07/11/denial-aint-working-no-more/comment-page-1/#comment-2715</link>
		<dc:creator>Deathstar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:52:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Liana:

Ohmigod, I am going to chant for you.  For as long as it takes.  YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS WAITING AND WONDERING - You need to get to the bottom of this as soon as it&#039;s possible.  Look at Zizi and AH and just make a determination.  It will be so.

Deathstars last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://awomanmyage.blogspot.com/2008/07/rest-in-peace-dear-sanpson.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Rest in Peace, Dear Sampson&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Liana:</p>
<p>Ohmigod, I am going to chant for you.  For as long as it takes.  YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS WAITING AND WONDERING &#8211; You need to get to the bottom of this as soon as it&#8217;s possible.  Look at Zizi and AH and just make a determination.  It will be so.</p>
<p>Deathstars last blog post..<a href="http://awomanmyage.blogspot.com/2008/07/rest-in-peace-dear-sanpson.html" rel="nofollow">Rest in Peace, Dear Sampson</a></p>
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		<title>By: Yoka</title>
		<link>http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/2008/07/11/denial-aint-working-no-more/comment-page-1/#comment-2714</link>
		<dc:creator>Yoka</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:23:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am sorry to hear these news. But it is definitely better to go and have the biopsy and I am glad you are getting it. I will keep you in my prayers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am sorry to hear these news. But it is definitely better to go and have the biopsy and I am glad you are getting it. I will keep you in my prayers.</p>
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		<title>By: Louise</title>
		<link>http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/2008/07/11/denial-aint-working-no-more/comment-page-1/#comment-2713</link>
		<dc:creator>Louise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 15:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am sorry to hear all of this, but glad you are getting it checked out. Love your auntie!

Take care!!!!
GL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am sorry to hear all of this, but glad you are getting it checked out. Love your auntie!</p>
<p>Take care!!!!<br />
GL</p>
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		<title>By: Fred</title>
		<link>http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/2008/07/11/denial-aint-working-no-more/comment-page-1/#comment-2712</link>
		<dc:creator>Fred</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Liana,

Funny how all your blogosphere lurkers say pretty much the same thing, which is exactly what I was going to say .... you&#039;re absolutely right that the biopsy is CYA ... and the first person who should want to cover your ass is yourself!  If you were right, and it&#039;s nothing, you&#039;re reassured.  If you&#039;re wrong, you know much sooner.  Let&#039;s all hope you were right!  Take care of yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Liana,</p>
<p>Funny how all your blogosphere lurkers say pretty much the same thing, which is exactly what I was going to say &#8230;. you&#8217;re absolutely right that the biopsy is CYA &#8230; and the first person who should want to cover your ass is yourself!  If you were right, and it&#8217;s nothing, you&#8217;re reassured.  If you&#8217;re wrong, you know much sooner.  Let&#8217;s all hope you were right!  Take care of yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: tubeless</title>
		<link>http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/2008/07/11/denial-aint-working-no-more/comment-page-1/#comment-2711</link>
		<dc:creator>tubeless</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 06:12:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, you are making the right decision to listen to your aunt and go for this biopsy. Get the worries over with now. I&#039;d hate to be sitting for 6 months thinking if things were worse if something was really wrong. I&#039;ll keep you on my prayer list.

tubelesss last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://stlgirl4ivf.blogspot.com/2008/07/dealing-with-tempers.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;dealing with tempers.....&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, you are making the right decision to listen to your aunt and go for this biopsy. Get the worries over with now. I&#8217;d hate to be sitting for 6 months thinking if things were worse if something was really wrong. I&#8217;ll keep you on my prayer list.</p>
<p>tubelesss last blog post..<a href="http://stlgirl4ivf.blogspot.com/2008/07/dealing-with-tempers.html" rel="nofollow">dealing with tempers&#8230;..</a></p>
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		<title>By: Lynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 16:29:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are doing the right thing and remember it is best for Z, your husband and LIANA.   God bless you and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are doing the right thing and remember it is best for Z, your husband and LIANA.   God bless you and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.</p>
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		<title>By: Kellie</title>
		<link>http://lianaandmason.com/dollhouse/2008/07/11/denial-aint-working-no-more/comment-page-1/#comment-2708</link>
		<dc:creator>Kellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 13:56:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LIana,

I&#039;m glad you called your Aunt.  I would have told you the same thing.  

Keep us posted and let me know if I can be of any help.

Hugs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LIana,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad you called your Aunt.  I would have told you the same thing.  </p>
<p>Keep us posted and let me know if I can be of any help.</p>
<p>Hugs.</p>
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